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Eat to Live, Not Live to Eat

Lose ten pounds in two weeks on our drink-a-shake-instead-of-eat diet. Lose 50 pounds on our magic treadmill. Take our abracadabra pill and watch the bulge vanish. Freeze off or suck out the fat at your local clinic. Chuck the vitamins and minerals in vegetables—just eat meat for a few months and watch the pounds melt away—but then spend a fortune on doctor bills because it made you sick. How may more diet and equipment commercials must we endure to feel guilty enough to tackle the avoir du poir that has accumulated in places too difficult to hide? Weigh loss has become a major industry.

I have a theory. We simply have too much—of everything. Our supermarkets and specialty stores are swollen with multiple brands of every kind of food known to humanity. How many different brands and shapes of pasta do we really need? As a culture, we seem to have an insatiable appetite for something new, something glamorous, something imported from places we would never see. Gluttony clamors for more on bigger pizzas, buffet restaurants where people pile on a mélange of grub all for one price, fast food eateries offering a frenzy of greasy meals and sugar-loaded drinks. And then we are disappointed at fine restaurants where you pay a month’s wages for a meal not big enough to fill a tooth cavity. Sounds nuts to me. Somehow the noise of modernity has overwhelmed our capacity for sobriety and moderation in all things and we need to reclaim it before it buries us.

Missionaries are not fat. It’s just a fact; get over it. I don’t mean the vacation warriors who travel a gazillion miles to lend a helping hand or go to church services and conferences in exotic places, enduring up to 36 sleepless traveling hours to get there, and then schlep their exhausted selves back home after a week or so. You may lose a pound or two, but nothing that won’t be regained, and even then some, when you treat yourself to your favorite hyper-calorie restaurant to reward yourself for your pains. I confess I have been on these short-term missionary trips a few times and I’m not minimizing the value of them to the field or the visitor. Everyone should to do it at least once. But I found a hidden benefit you never read in the brochure.

The itinerant and long term missionary is a different breed. Having met a considerable number of those “laid down lovers of God” who forego many luxuries of home, both large and small, to answer the “go ye, therefore” call repeatedly or for long periods of time, I have noticed that they are lean and generally fit enough to walk everywhere without gasping and looking for a bench to rest. Dragging those extra fifty pounds is punishing when you walk miles to get bottled water. In remote villages, the open air marketplace is the only source of vittles, and selections are limited to whatever is available or in season from local farms. Typically, the menu is highly repetitive and simple. They eat to live, not live to eat. Quite a shock to bloated bellies that fold over the waistband, but here’s the good news.

Drumroll – – – Aha! I’ve discovered an amazing weight loss program that you will not see on TV. Every time I go to remote places on an extended time on a mission trip, I drop at least ten pounds (operative word extended). You get to meet awesome people doing miracles every day; you get to do the “go ye” stuff; and for a bonus, you drop off the unwanted heftiness because your diet and travel is nothing like home. You eat way less, eliminate the snacks, move around in often difficult terrain, and sweat more just by being there.  It’s a holistic program–no need to weigh and measure food, no calorie counting, no dragging yourself to the gym since walking is the only way you get to anywhere, and all the while doing what makes your soul and spirit happy. Less really is more. In a few weeks, I’m off to spending seven weeks in Asia. I look forward to coming home different – less poundage and more life.

 

Copyright 2016 by Eva Benevento. All rights reserved.

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4 Habits That Hinder Growth

Snowmaggedon! A snowstorm is coming in two days to the Northeast. Milk and bread are flying off the supermarket shelves. It’s as if milk and bread will become extinct commodities forever. This peculiar behavior goes on every time a snowstorm blows through. Every winter claims at least one major snowstorm, so supermarket owners are happy purveyors as their shelves are emptied. Pavlov would be smiling at this predictable stimulus-response behavior.

We are such creatures of habit. So many everyday things are done without thought by merely the stimulus of routine. Oh, but routine is a good thing, especially for keeping one’s life in some semblance of order and predictability. The down side of habitual behavior is when it gets in the way of individual and/or church growth. Here are some examples.

  1. Sit in the same section every Sunday.

You’ve staked out your territory and marked your place. Nobody better even think about taking your space without the risk of sidelong glares or rolled eyes. Imagine the unaware newbies who plopped in the pew of Brother and Sister So-and-So and who now notice tense body language of people around them. Do you think they are likely to return?

Try sitting in different locations each time. You will find new perspectives and even meet new people as you change your seating.

  1. Hang out with the same people after the service.

I’ve noticed that people tend to group together with their family members and same friends week after week. Small cliques are formed and the vibe says to visitors, “You are really not welcome to return, even though you were greeted with a handshake and a smile and filled out the visitor’s card.”

Take a risk and reach out to people with whom you don’t usually converse. Make it a point to introduce yourself and engage in conversation with someone new to the church. You will find some new acquaintances that may evolve into deep friendships. You may even be the answer to their prayers.

  1. Read only certain passages, books, or sections of Scripture.

You are comfortable in reading the gospels and epistles. Every now and then you venture into Psalms or one of the Old Testament stories of the likes of Moses, but Jeremiah is a huge stretch. You claim that Revelation and many of the Old Testament books are too difficult and even somewhat scary, and so you avoid them. It would mean some serious effort and study.

Don’t let pride stop you from personal growth. Ask for resources to help you venture into those places in God’s Word that you perceive to be difficult. More than likely others you know have the same need and would love to journey into the new turf with you.

  1. Pray the same prayers over and over.

Like the automated messages on phone menus, you have a stock of prayers for every occasion. You repeat the same words over your food when asked to bless the meal, and the words tumble off your lips like reciting the Pledge of Allegiance.

Take a breather from fear, thinking you want to sound reasonably intelligent and holy, and give your attention to the One to whom you are talking—the Lord. Prayer is a conversation with God—giving him praise, thanks, adoration; presenting petitions to Him; expressing your faith in His Words on the matter; and the other side of the conversation—hearing from God. Remain open to His voice and hear what He has to say. It might amaze you.

And while you are at it, keep a loaf of bread in the freezer and some emergency powdered milk in the pantry for weekends like this. Relax and enjoy the beauty of a fresh snowfall before the plows shove piles along the curb and do something different just for the fun of it.

 

Copyright 2016 by Eva Benevento.

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Laughter: Soul Medicine

Laughter is good. “A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones” (Proverbs 7:22 KJV). It seems that a merry attitude starts in the soul and leaks into the body. Every pharmaceutical medicine I have tasted ranged from barely tolerable to downright nasty, but laughter feels good and has no ugly side effects. No, I am not suggesting that you dump your meds for a DVD series of I Love Lucy. To medicate or not to medicate is in your court.

Did Jesus laugh? How about Moses or David? I think we can be big enough in our theological mindset to say yes. Okay, the Bible is serious stuff about the serious side of life—and death—and beyond, but there are stories about real people and real people can be really funny. It maybe not side-splitting funny, meaning funny as in “ha, ha,” not funny-peculiar. Well, they can be peculiar too. At the very least, they warrant an occasional guffaw or chortle. It is pretty peculiar when a woman talks to a serpent and a jackass prophesies. Some things are just plain funny.

Let’s face it, making light of serious faults and failures can be uncomfortable and funny all at the same time. Fear not, friend. Human foibles are the stuff of comedy since Adam and Eve evacuated the Garden. The Bible is rife with story after story of people who made a few great decisions, but notably made some really bad ones, the stuff of comedy that would have ended up on the ancient version of Saturday Night Live. It pretty much makes our dumb decisions fall into the categories of “I-guess-I’m-not-the-only-one” or “how-could-______(fill in the blank)-have-been-so-stupid!” Imagine having your moments of idiocy retold to the whole world for generations. If you didn’t laugh, you’d cry.

More important, taking a close look at other people’s blunders is not so much that it sooths egos, but they can actually help us to learn from their mistakes, which is the point of failure stories. What do we do with those dumb things we say and do? We can squall and spit over them. We can promise the moon, sun, stars, and every living thing that it will NEVER happen again, only to repeat them at moments of utter weakness. Or we can shake our heads at our foolishness, squeak out a chuckle, and make some changes through the grace and love of God. I like change, especially when it ends in transformation. And somewhere in there is a story to laugh about.

 

Copyright 2015 by Eva Benevento. All rights reserved.

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